December’s Festivities Are Exactly What We Need!

Winter can be a rather ‘cold’ time both physically, emotionally and metaphysically ~ it’s important we bring in our own ‘heat’ to warm things up!

Winter can be a rather ‘cold’ time both physically, emotionally and metaphysically ~ it’s important we bring in our own ‘heat’ to warm things up!

December 7 begins Ren Zi:

  • Ren is Yang Water
  • Zi is Rat

This puts us in a uniquely emotional place that can be tricky as it’s full-on water in the metaphysical realm.

You know me well enough by now, that I am a firm believer that we create our environment, not the other way around… ?‍♀️

Whatever you find yourself amidst this month, take ownership that you created it and brought yourself to this moment…

December is a powerful month and we can tap into this power for the greater good. All we gotta do is heat things up, bring some fire to the equation and we’ll be good to go!

Water is forever a cold force to be reckoned with, and the waves that began to ripple in November will intensify their journey toward us now.

Ripples can be announcements of change, and if we consider what we saw with Twitter in November… you can understand the kind of ripples that were in play…

December is a whole different scenario as the ripples hit their intended targets this month.

Power is shifting, and will continue to do so, some of it in rather unpredictable ways.

Remember, water is only true to itself and will go wherever it wants… It doesn’t care about you or me.

What will we see around us this month Sam…?

Movement, in every sense of the word!

The December Rat isn’t a mobility animal, but the true nature of water is never to stay still, and stay still we will not.

I chose this month to travel, as it’s a direct clash to me (read more in the Astrology section below) so I knew it was the right time to make a change in my location as that is where the clash appears in my BaZi chart.

BaZi isn’t rocket science; it’s logical, empowering and freeing!

Even if your BaZi chart doesn’t have a clash you will still be affected by the month moving around you, as move it most certainly will.

What will we feel ..?

Emotions running high…

Fear of the unknown…


We can read those words negatively or positively and you know I always find the positive, so let’s do this!

Know that your own emotions may be rippling under the surface, so choose to laugh off problems and smile through the hiccups!

A problem shared is a problem downsized as it’s most often not what we thought right… ?‍♀️


Do not fear the unknown, for the word itself tell us everything we need to know… You can’t fear something you don’t know, so don’t ?‍♀️

Focus on the here and now, what and who is around you.

What are the best actions to take…?

Stay in the thick of it all and maintain your momentum!

This is not the month to do it alone, go quiet or withdraw and isolate yourself.

Nope ~ that would be playing into the darkness of it all, and none of us can harness the kind of power that’s afoot right now.

Join every activity, accept every invitation and indulge in deliciously fun foods, an extra glass of your favourite beverage and let go of regulations that hold you back.

Be FREE this month to embrace the fluidity and dare I remind you of something I said last month…?

Of course I dare, hello, have we not met… ?‍♀️

‘Stay in your own lane

Yep, you heard right, this will be our mantra for a some time now as 2023 begins to take control.

What do I need to avoid …?

Going into someone else’s lane.

Yep, I’m gonna keep being cheeky until you get this mantra down pat.

Poke your nose into others’ business, pay too much attention to what’s happening outside your world and you’ll be dragged into stuff that does not concern you.

You’ll be dragged into stuff that is not good for you.

Staying in your lane does not mean burying your head in the sand, it means taking care of yourself first.

Remember, we have to put ourselves first so we are in the correct position to help others.

K, let’s switch gears for a moment and look at your home!

4 Feng Shui tips you must have!

Now let’s move into some Feng Shui and highlight two fab areas in your home for favourable outcomes this month!

  • North ~ clarity of thought particularly useful for career moves!
  • Southeast ~ great for new ventures, advancing relationships ~ both professional and personal

Time to balance this out, which areas are best to avoid then Sam?

  • South ~ confusion, procrastination and potential issues with heart and eyes
  • West ~ legal complications and likely arguments… watch your words please!

Keep in mind, you may not be able to avoid an area I speak to ~ I get that 100%. I ask you to become aware of the energy influences and do what you can in real time ok.

Your astrology forecast this month!

Alrighty, let’s move into our horoscopes and see what’s hot and what’s not! Don’t know your Astrology Chart…? No problem, check it HERE and come right back to read more about you!

In your birth chart, do you have:

Horse: Technically known as a clash month for you, do not be afraid as this most often means change, and change is needed for optimal growth.

Goat: Always an interesting time when a harm pops forward, and this one could be emotionally driven, so buckle up and be ready! Make time to centre yourself and focus on your needs, because if you overextend yourself for others, they’ll be ok, but you won’t ?‍♀️

Rabbit:  Referred to as an ‘uncivilized penalty’ this one can hit hard as it’s placed upon you by others, possibly by the powers that be and you won’t like it. Stay calm, stay cool, stay limber and go with the flow to find your way through this.

Rooster: This one is all about bad habits, so it’s time to ensure you create better ones this month! On the flip side, can you make some big changes and potentially destroy something that is blocking your path..? 

Ox: Ah… True friends through thick and thin, this is a month of collaborations and assistance! Connect with the people you need, and you will get where you want to go. Yep, it can be that easy!

As we close our chat, you may be hanging onto some of the negatives I spoke to…

Please realign your focus!

December’s powerful water can be like a shower, cleansing our bodies, our minds, our very souls and allowing us to finally let go.

You may have to scrub at some parts, use a little extra soap to remove something… keep going, the clean areas you are creating for yourself are going to be extraordinary.

Wash away the fears, tears and all that lay in between my friends…

One more thing before you go!

Do you want the deets on how this month affects you personally…?

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By Sam Plovie

The Ultimate Guide By Your Side ~ QiPro Sam helps you remove the barriers that sabotage your success so you can live life at full potential